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Just got a call

methane47methane47 Member UncommonPosts: 3,694

Dad just called... told me my mom died...

pancreatic cancer...

And I just left her side yesterday :(

I dont even know what I should feel now..

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  • grimweepergrimweeper Member Posts: 2,047

    God damn, sorry to hear that, probably at the worst time ever too.  I know it probably doesnt feel right to go out and party for new years eve but your mom would have wanted for you to have fun and live life to the fullest so go out have fun and try not to think about it, until tomarrow that is.

     

    Very sorry to hear about it though

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  • Tuor7Tuor7 Member RarePosts: 982

    You don't have to feel anything. In fact, IMO you shouldn't try to feel anything. Believe me, as someone who has also had his mother die, you'll feel things eventually. The shock will wear off. I can't say exactly what you'll feel, because I'm not you, but I'm pretty sure you'll feel something.

    It's a sad time and I hope you make it through it mostly intact.

  • JackcoltJackcolt Member UncommonPosts: 2,170

    My condolences

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  • JennysMindJennysMind Member UncommonPosts: 869

    I'm sorry to hear that. Just make sure you go throught the grieving process. Time will help heal the pain.

  • MisterDejonMisterDejon Member Posts: 15

    fuck that sucks.. i lost my dad 3 years ago, on this same day, new years eve at 11:59 am, great 1 min. away from New years right?

  • frodusfrodus Member Posts: 2,396

    SORRY DUDE,best wishs to u

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  • ColdmeatColdmeat Member UncommonPosts: 3,408

    My condolences to you and your family, sir.

  • BalterBalter Member Posts: 1,015

    Man... So sorry to hear that.

     

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  • xpyrofuryxxpyrofuryx Member CommonPosts: 1,587

    I dont post much anymore , and im drunk, but man wow im sorry.

    I hope you feel better, I dont really know what to say, but best wishes, and shes in a happier place

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  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384

    Originally posted by methane47


    Dad just called... told me my mom died...
    pancreatic cancer...
    And I just left her side yesterday :(
    I dont even know what I should feel now..
    Methane

    If you ever need to talk to me vial email, im, or even on the phone, email me here.

    My father died a couple years ago (he was 49) and I know exactly what you are going through. I know all about the numbess, the periods of complete shock, the dreams you are currently having.

    I can walk you through this if you need someone. Just let me know, man.

    People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.

  • xpyrofuryxxpyrofuryx Member CommonPosts: 1,587

    If you want to talk to anyone you can call me, i sent you my number

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  • RittoRitto Member Posts: 191

     

    Originally posted by methane47


    Dad just called... told me my mom died...
    pancreatic cancer...
    And I just left her side yesterday :(
    I dont even know what I should feel now..

    Sorry to hear that, My Father passed away September 1st 2007 I can kind of say I know how you feel.

     

    Its horrible when a loved one dies, I wish the best for you and your family.

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  • DekronDekron Member UncommonPosts: 7,359

    I'm game if you need to talk. I dealt with this 4 years ago with my mother - lung cancer. PM me if needed. Condolences.

  • LydonLydon Member UncommonPosts: 2,938

    That's sad news - sorry to hear. Hope all goes well with you and your family.

  • JelloB2000JelloB2000 Member CommonPosts: 1,848

    Man thats sad, my condolences.

  • AguyAguy Member Posts: 561

    Sorry to hear that meth, my thoughts go out to you.

  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718

    My man methane. I'm very sorry to hear that. The wrong time to go for anyone. At the time of month, during the brand new year. Yo man if you gotta let it out, go ahead. It's your mother we talking bout and I wish I could say something to cheer you up other than to just be strong for your mother. I'm sure she enjoyed seeing you grow up though the years and become a man. At least she lived this long bro to see you shine man. Keep your family close and your mom will still be close to you though your life.

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  • slannmageslannmage Member Posts: 540

    Guy on TV died tonight tooo.

  • 8hammer88hammer8 Member Posts: 1,812

    Methane....my condolences and as said before you don't have to feel anything right now, but just remember that when you do don't hold anything back. 

    "It is easier to be cruel than wise. The road to wisdom is long and difficult... so most people just turn out to be assholes" Feng (Christopher Walken)

  • GodliestGodliest Member Posts: 3,486

    I was about to say "I feel sad for you" or something equally crappy grammar wise but I'll use the new word I learned in this topic and say:

    My condolences

    None of my parents have died yet, but I believe I can at least imagine slightly what it feels like. Must be hard for you.

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  • ZorvanZorvan Member CommonPosts: 8,912

    No words I can offer will make the situation any easier, Meth. I am sorry for your loss. Stay strong.

  • vampiress92vampiress92 Member Posts: 266

    Man, I'm so sorry. Christ... :(

  • MotorheadMotorhead Member UncommonPosts: 1,193

    Sorry to hear.

    It's been 15 years since I lost a parent, and I can still remember it like it was yesterday.

    For what it's worth, time does help to heal the wound.

     

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  • TechleoTechleo Member Posts: 1,984

    Sorry to hear of your loss Meth. None of my parents have died yet. I did lose my grandpa's and the bad part is.. I didnt feel anything.  I never did feel anything except perhaps a pang of loss. I just hope you can handle it better then I did. Feeling hollow is its own hell

  • Dis_OrdurDis_Ordur Member Posts: 1,501

    Sorry to hear that, our sympathies...  I cannot even imagine what that is like...

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