still waiting for a PM from the future cop and the dude with the fat wow playing chick still wanna nail them!
This states a fine case as to how they may be doing better off than your are...
Im doing fine, i work and dont play video games all day long. wish i could but i have responcibilities. I also pay my taxes so when dumbasses like this can get medical help when they finally reconize this BS!
still waiting for a PM from the future cop and the dude with the fat wow playing chick still wanna nail them!
This states a fine case as to how they may be doing better off than your are...
Im doing fine, i work and dont play video games all day long. wish i could but i have responcibilities. I also pay my taxes so when dumbasses like this can get medical help when they finally reconize this BS!
I'm saying you're preoccupation in "nailing" anonymous internet slugs is more disturbing than their own psychoses.
Writer / Musician / Game Designer
Now Playing: Skyrim, Wurm Online, Tropico 4 Waiting On: GW2, TSW, Archeage, The Rapture
I'm single because men can't handle my gaming addiction and those that can can't handle a girl that can kick their ass in a shooter or outgrind them in a grindfest.
Bullcrap, only little boys get angry at this kind of thing.
Real men like myself look at the ecstatic look on my lady-friend's face after getting worked in halo, then smile at the prospect of her trying to show off in the sack later as well. Girl gamers are easy to satisfy, as long as you are willing to suffer defeat in one area in order to reap the benefits elsewhere. It's just about keeping your chickie happy, and if all it takes is letting her win at street fighter, then I am all for it.
Plus, a chick too determined to game all night is one that's not going to bog you down with stupid questions like "what are you thinking about?", nor ask you to watch Grey's Anatomy with them. I'm all for that.
still waiting for a PM from the future cop and the dude with the fat wow playing chick still wanna nail them!
This states a fine case as to how they may be doing better off than your are...
Im doing fine, i work and dont play video games all day long. wish i could but i have responcibilities. I also pay my taxes so when dumbasses like this can get medical help when they finally reconize this BS!
I'm saying you're preoccupation in "nailing" anonymous internet slugs is more disturbing than their own psychoses.
Just incase this isnt a troll as i'am sure many ppl could possibly be having similar issues i will put my opinion in.
Firstly u need to figure out how much she means to you and weather ur attempts are because you truly love and care bout her or weather its a first love and u dont want to let go sort of thing.
If u decide to stay then i hate to say it but the problem proberly lies with u especially if that sex while raiding comment had any truth to it, I would recomend u read up on a few sex guides cause after 5 years just putting it in and going for it aint gonna cut it especially as u get a bit older whoever said the female o is a myth is either a troll or a kid, u will know when u hit it she will secrete a heap of stuff that will make a wet patch on the bed or wherever u are followed by the inside muscles contracting then it will all go really sensative. If u can do that there is no way possible she could concentrate on a game and have that happen at the same time.
Another thing if she has stopped paying so much attention to u and more on the game she is proberly filling the emotional void with u for the social aspect of wow and it may take a bit of work to get that back but dont give up put the effort in help with the cooking/cleaning instead of expecting her to do it all. Try and get her away from the comp for a day and go out somewhere special where she has no choice but to dress up and look nice u may have to keep an eye on her raid schedule to start with work around it to prove you are truely trying to fix things.
Dont just sit her down and say ur gonna leave her if she doesnt stop playing cause that will just result in a fight ending in fine do it then, more talk about your relationship and your thoughts on where its going on the current path and if all else fails she will no doubt get burnt out with wow's repetative raiding anyway.
All kidding and movie references aside, maybe you should just leave. Theres a time to help someone and a time to cut your losses and gtfo. Theres gotta be better woman out there, if what your story says is truely non-troll.
Just incase this isnt a troll as i'am sure many ppl could possibly be having similar issues i will put my opinion in.
Firstly u need to figure out how much she means to you and weather ur attempts are because you truly love and care bout her or weather its a first love and u dont want to let go sort of thing.
If u decide to stay then i hate to say it but the problem proberly lies with u especially if that sex while raiding comment had any truth to it, I would recomend u read up on a few sex guides cause after 5 years just putting it in and going for it aint gonna cut it especially as u get a bit older whoever said the female o is a myth is either a troll or a kid, u will know when u hit it she will secrete a heap of stuff that will make a wet patch on the bed or wherever u are followed by the inside muscles contracting then it will all go really sensative. If u can do that there is no way possible she could concentrate on a game and have that happen at the same time.
Another thing if she has stopped paying so much attention to u and more on the game she is proberly filling the emotional void with u for the social aspect of wow and it may take a bit of work to get that back but dont give up put the effort in help with the cooking/cleaning instead of expecting her to do it all. Try and get her away from the comp for a day and go out somewhere special where she has no choice but to dress up and look nice u may have to keep an eye on her raid schedule to start with work around it to prove you are truely trying to fix things.
Dont just sit her down and say ur gonna leave her if she doesnt stop playing cause that will just result in a fight ending in fine do it then, more talk about your relationship and your thoughts on where its going on the current path and if all else fails she will no doubt get burnt out with wow's repetative raiding anyway.
good luck with it.
Hehe, I think most people woulda gotten your point without the detailed description. But kudos for the effort.
"I call shenanigans" "are you sure getting her knocked up is the answer?" "I can't help ya man. I'm a chubby chaser." "That's just 40 lbs more woman to love." "You need to stop playing wow when the drop rate of your girl friend's pants is <1%" "Um ... If your girl friend is playing wow, who is cleaning the house and cooking food for you so you can raid?" "Remember friend, fat ugly women have only been introduced to feminism, because it is fat ugly women who think they are an equal, as you can tell they are not." "I can't believe this thread is still alive. Please kill it before the female gamers find it." "She's not the girl you fell in love with. Basically she ate the girl you fell in love with." "Problem: Girl who dumped you for her online life. Solution: Find a new girl. Now, how hard was that?"
Before we played this game, we used to go out every Friday, Saturday night, go to the gym from Monday to Friday and she was near of having six pack abs, she had a tight body and she was ALWAYS taking care of how she looked.
It all started when my girlfriend and me saw the southpark episode where they played WoW, we didn't even knew that the game existed, we thought they made it up, then one day we were talking with some friends and one of them used to play WoW back in vanilla times and he told us all about this game, the next day I was going to buy 1 copy of the game but my girlfriend got mad at me because I only bought 1 for me, so I had to go back to the store and get another copy for her, so we jumped right into the game, we both make Blood Elves, she was a warlock and I was a paladin, so yeah, in this point of the game, I was very addicted to it, I just wanted to hit level 80 as soon as I could, so I played a lot and even we played a lot it took us like 2 -3 months to hit level 80, so when I hit level 80 I thought that was it, I knew you could raid and pvp, but I thought that the main aspect of the game was leveling from 1 to 80, but I was wrong, I stopped to play the game, I would only log like once every day, but she didn't she was playing it 4+ hours everyday, so I asked her what was she doing if we already were 80, she told me all about the Dungeon daily, pvp daily, Cooking daily, JC daily, farming gold to pay flask and raids and the worst of all the Achievements, she want to get all the achievement in the god damn game, anyway, I joined her but I still didn't play as nearly much as her, she made me join this guild, so we could raid and we did, at first we didn't raid, we were just guild members, everyone knew she was a girl so immediately bunch of guys started to whisper her and flirting with her, I didn't care because it was a video game, but then when we went to vent things got worst, but I could deal with it, I was still the one waxing her ass, anyway, that is not my concern, in the last 4-6 months she has gained 40 pounds or more, she obviously doesn't care anymore how she looks like, we get random visits from time to time and she don't even care if her hair looks good nothing, she even plays while they are in the house, we still have a lot of sex, but she even made me have sex with her while she was raiding, I grabbed her and told her all these things and she won't listen, she does listen and she says she is going to stop playing so much, but I still see her long times playing and I don't want to be a pain in the ass for her, but come on. I love her but I am just worry about her, however I don't want to control her life.
On the good side, I know she is at home always and I've lot of chances to cheat on her, however I have not done it yet
I am really in a shitty situation and I came here to hear some thoughts about it and maybe some of you guys had a similar problem and can help me out. We have about a year and some playing the game.
ERP is a hell of a drug....
You got 2 options buddy. Dump her and find someone else ( yes there are hotter women out there) or wait and see what happens.
ive played WoW for over 10000 hours within 4+ years(15+ hours everyday for atleast 2 years straight), and my BMI is 18.5 exactly, im 6"3 and have a 6pack and have done weights for 4 years. but still zero cardio during that time. It's mainly about what you eat. Knowledge is Power.
As What Haiken should do is to let her know of her addiction, tell her to take it in moderation and say it straight out bluntly that, 'You as you are now after gaining weight have become less attractive and also since you ignore me because of WoW it makes me think that you don't care about me anymore, if this is true then i wish to break up'
or something like that. Don't be scared to say what u mean. better to say it then to not
ive played WoW for over 10000 hours within 4+ years(15+ hours everyday for atleast 2 years straight), and my BMI is 18.5 exactly, im 6"3 and have a 6pack and have done weights for 4 years. but still zero cardio during that time. It's mainly about what you eat. Knowledge is Power.
As What Haiken should do is to let her know of her addiction, tell her to take it in moderation and say it straight out bluntly that, 'You as you are now after gaining weight have become less attractive and also since you ignore me because of WoW it makes me think that you don't care about me anymore, if this is true then i wish to break up'
or something like that. Don't be scared to say what u mean. better to say it then to not
Try to mix it in with raiding somehow. Say, "you can't kill Arthas until you drop 40 pounds because he's a helluva hard boss" or "those epics AREN'T one-size-fits-all, they were designed for skinny people (unless she plays an Orc or a, God-help-us, female Tauren or Dwarf)." Ehh, he'll have to be creative, but it sounds like that's the only way to get her off her butt.
OP, I say move on. But maybe you'll get lucky and she'll get bored one day and quit. It's happened to enough people, especially on this site. Maybe you could use this guy's example, saying that you can play WoW 15+ hours a day and still take care of yourself.
ive played WoW for over 10000 hours within 4+ years(15+ hours everyday for atleast 2 years straight), and my BMI is 18.5 exactly, im 6"3 and have a 6pack and have done weights for 4 years. but still zero cardio during that time. It's mainly about what you eat. Knowledge is Power.
As What Haiken should do is to let her know of her addiction, tell her to take it in moderation and say it straight out bluntly that, 'You as you are now after gaining weight have become less attractive and also since you ignore me because of WoW it makes me think that you don't care about me anymore, if this is true then i wish to break up'
or something like that. Don't be scared to say what u mean. better to say it then to not
Try to mix it in with raiding somehow. Say, "you can't kill Arthas until you drop 40 pounds because he's a helluva hard boss" or "those epics AREN'T one-size-fits-all, they were designed for skinny people (unless she plays an Orc or a, God-help-us, female Tauren or Dwarf)." Ehh, he'll have to be creative, but it sounds like that's the only way to get her off her butt.
OP, I say move on. But maybe you'll get lucky and she'll get bored one day and quit. It's happened to enough people, especially on this site. Maybe you could use this guy's example, saying that you can play WoW 15+ hours a day and still take care of yourself.
only thing bad about that is that you have no financial income. and also weights can also count as cardio. u can do Weights with a set of up to say 18 including all ur muscles with just 2x 12kg hand weights in a 3 meter square room. so even agoraphobic people can look great! lol?
why are you posting about that here man, this things should remain private not discussed in the open, also you seem like a no personality person, you should face her about her proplem like a man for godsake, take action also whatever the way you think fit not what we think fit, this proplem is between you and her.
also I dont understand this whole she got fat from playing, I go to college every day and most days I get back and play and I am not fat, as long as she doesnt eat much food she is okay.
note: I honestly think this is a fake post but what the hell I get to insult a troll I dont have a proplem with that.
They cripple the bird's wing, and then condemn it for not flying as fast as they.Malcolm X
Alright this is probably going to be my 1st and only post on this forum.
First of all I also call shenanigans on the entire story, however i do find this thread to be freakin hilarious!
Second of alll....NO FAT CHICKS, its a policy that every man should live by and i believe if this guy's "GF" won't try to lose weight then goodbye chick. If she wants sex from you tell her to lose 40 lbs and then talk to you!
If I'm gonna work hard to stay in shape then i excpect the girl I'm with to do the same.
Finally, Game addiction is real, I'm not going to say if it's a major problem or not, but someone earlier called it escapism? Isn't that exactly what every person addicted to weed, or alcohol, or any other drug is doing? Escaping and trying to avoid the problems they refuse to face. If one is playing a game for the same purpose, it would be considered an addiction.
my suggestion is that if she won't change you should do what's best for you and move on. You leaving her might be what it takes for her to recognize that she has a problem. It's time to nut-up and speak up and take care of yourself. My mom is hopelessly addicted to wow also and there is no reasoning with her about her addiction to it. We hardly talk anymore because she's on there.
Agreed...if after you've done everything you can to support her and try to make her get professional help and see her problem and nothing works. Splitting up might make her comes to her senses, maybe not. But to be honest this relationship sounds very shallow and I don't believe it'll last long-term anyway. You seem to solely care about your girlfriend's looks and little else...gonna need a hell of a lot more then that to make it last OP.
First off I think its dumb to say he is shallow for wanting his girlfriend to maintain her attractiveness. If sex had nothing to do with this situation then they would just be friends. I don't think it's too much to ask from your partner to maintain appearances as long as you do the same. Before I get yelled at I am not saying someone needs to be "perfect" but I don't think gaining 40 pounds/losing muscle, and overall not caring about hygiene is enough to become disappointed over.
Secondly she seems like she is sacrificing her real life relationships for the game. Ignoring him and friends that come to visit in favor of playing the game. Even the the depths of an MMO "addition" I have always made time for friends when something was going on.
Sent me an email if you want me to mail you some pizza rolls.
This op, sounds like a typical troll found at Gamefaq's, making a thread like this. I didn't think they would escape the confines of that website, but WE ARE ALLLLLLLLLL DOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I blame the commies! or the french canadians........ both are a fearsome foe.
Ummmm.. ok. How about holding people accountable for the actions they take rather than blaming some game? Im pretty sure that If I was to play a game and not get up because I had to take a dump, thus... ending up taking a dump in my pants... it would b e my fault and not the games.
Though im sure its an easy scapegoat to use a game as an excuse for a suffering relationship.
In the spirit of this thread... im gonna go over to mcdonalds today and accuse them of making me fat... then willingly order a double quarter pounder with extras.
Wow how very shallow. Please dump your gf so she can find someone with a soul. And do not empregnate anyone for manipulative purposes as one idiot suggested. The cost that will be in terms of the rest of your life is sooo not worth it.
Maybe she gained weight cause your not fun to go out and do stuff with?
I care about her looks, I deserve to die !
If she feels good about herself, then why do you have to comment her looks at all?
So much pity for the girl here, yet when a very popularly attractive woman is with a balding old fat man, there is an immense outcry about how much better she could do, dump the loser, cheat on him until he gets the point, blah blah blah....
I love people.
Originally posted by mech209
If I'm gonna work hard to stay in shape then i excpect the girl I'm with to do the same.
Yeah, it's so hard to not overeat.
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This states a fine case as to how they may be doing better off than your are...
Writer / Musician / Game Designer
Now Playing: Skyrim, Wurm Online, Tropico 4
Waiting On: GW2, TSW, Archeage, The Rapture
Im doing fine, i work and dont play video games all day long. wish i could but i have responcibilities. I also pay my taxes so when dumbasses like this can get medical help when they finally reconize this BS!
I'm saying you're preoccupation in "nailing" anonymous internet slugs is more disturbing than their own psychoses.
Writer / Musician / Game Designer
Now Playing: Skyrim, Wurm Online, Tropico 4
Waiting On: GW2, TSW, Archeage, The Rapture
You took the words right out of my mouth (;
Pepsi1028
PEPSI!!!!!
Get out of your box already...
It just makes me laugh.
Just incase this isnt a troll as i'am sure many ppl could possibly be having similar issues i will put my opinion in.
Firstly u need to figure out how much she means to you and weather ur attempts are because you truly love and care bout her or weather its a first love and u dont want to let go sort of thing.
If u decide to stay then i hate to say it but the problem proberly lies with u especially if that sex while raiding comment had any truth to it, I would recomend u read up on a few sex guides cause after 5 years just putting it in and going for it aint gonna cut it especially as u get a bit older whoever said the female o is a myth is either a troll or a kid, u will know when u hit it she will secrete a heap of stuff that will make a wet patch on the bed or wherever u are followed by the inside muscles contracting then it will all go really sensative. If u can do that there is no way possible she could concentrate on a game and have that happen at the same time.
Another thing if she has stopped paying so much attention to u and more on the game she is proberly filling the emotional void with u for the social aspect of wow and it may take a bit of work to get that back but dont give up put the effort in help with the cooking/cleaning instead of expecting her to do it all. Try and get her away from the comp for a day and go out somewhere special where she has no choice but to dress up and look nice u may have to keep an eye on her raid schedule to start with work around it to prove you are truely trying to fix things.
Dont just sit her down and say ur gonna leave her if she doesnt stop playing cause that will just result in a fight ending in fine do it then, more talk about your relationship and your thoughts on where its going on the current path and if all else fails she will no doubt get burnt out with wow's repetative raiding anyway.
good luck with it.
Derp, dont you remember what mama said??? GIRLS ARE THE DEVIL!!!!
All kidding and movie references aside, maybe you should just leave. Theres a time to help someone and a time to cut your losses and gtfo. Theres gotta be better woman out there, if what your story says is truely non-troll.
Hehe, I think most people woulda gotten your point without the detailed description. But kudos for the effort.
Okay. You win. Best Title for a Post, ever.
Here are just a few of the gems I found:
"I call shenanigans"
"are you sure getting her knocked up is the answer?"
"I can't help ya man. I'm a chubby chaser."
"That's just 40 lbs more woman to love."
"You need to stop playing wow when the drop rate of your girl friend's pants is <1%"
"Um ... If your girl friend is playing wow, who is cleaning the house and cooking food for you so you can raid?"
"Remember friend, fat ugly women have only been introduced to feminism, because it is fat ugly women who think they are an equal, as you can tell they are not."
"I can't believe this thread is still alive. Please kill it before the female gamers find it."
"She's not the girl you fell in love with. Basically she ate the girl you fell in love with."
"Problem: Girl who dumped you for her online life. Solution: Find a new girl. Now, how hard was that?"
Most I've ever read of any mmorpg thread.
Thank you internets
ERP is a hell of a drug....
You got 2 options buddy. Dump her and find someone else ( yes there are hotter women out there) or wait and see what happens.
ive played WoW for over 10000 hours within 4+ years(15+ hours everyday for atleast 2 years straight), and my BMI is 18.5 exactly, im 6"3 and have a 6pack and have done weights for 4 years. but still zero cardio during that time. It's mainly about what you eat. Knowledge is Power.
As What Haiken should do is to let her know of her addiction, tell her to take it in moderation and say it straight out bluntly that, 'You as you are now after gaining weight have become less attractive and also since you ignore me because of WoW it makes me think that you don't care about me anymore, if this is true then i wish to break up'
or something like that. Don't be scared to say what u mean. better to say it then to not
... but she even made me have sex with her while she was raiding ...
That's the problem right there, make her have sex with you when you're raiding ... that'll put things in perspective for her!
or then again you could have elf sex with her on WoW instead
Try to mix it in with raiding somehow. Say, "you can't kill Arthas until you drop 40 pounds because he's a helluva hard boss" or "those epics AREN'T one-size-fits-all, they were designed for skinny people (unless she plays an Orc or a, God-help-us, female Tauren or Dwarf)." Ehh, he'll have to be creative, but it sounds like that's the only way to get her off her butt.
OP, I say move on. But maybe you'll get lucky and she'll get bored one day and quit. It's happened to enough people, especially on this site. Maybe you could use this guy's example, saying that you can play WoW 15+ hours a day and still take care of yourself.
only thing bad about that is that you have no financial income. and also weights can also count as cardio. u can do Weights with a set of up to say 18 including all ur muscles with just 2x 12kg hand weights in a 3 meter square room. so even agoraphobic people can look great! lol?
why are you posting about that here man, this things should remain private not discussed in the open, also you seem like a no personality person, you should face her about her proplem like a man for godsake, take action also whatever the way you think fit not what we think fit, this proplem is between you and her.
also I dont understand this whole she got fat from playing, I go to college every day and most days I get back and play and I am not fat, as long as she doesnt eat much food she is okay.
note: I honestly think this is a fake post but what the hell I get to insult a troll I dont have a proplem with that.
They cripple the bird's wing, and then condemn it for not flying as fast as they.Malcolm X
Alright this is probably going to be my 1st and only post on this forum.
First of all I also call shenanigans on the entire story, however i do find this thread to be freakin hilarious!
Second of alll....NO FAT CHICKS, its a policy that every man should live by and i believe if this guy's "GF" won't try to lose weight then goodbye chick. If she wants sex from you tell her to lose 40 lbs and then talk to you!
If I'm gonna work hard to stay in shape then i excpect the girl I'm with to do the same.
Finally, Game addiction is real, I'm not going to say if it's a major problem or not, but someone earlier called it escapism? Isn't that exactly what every person addicted to weed, or alcohol, or any other drug is doing? Escaping and trying to avoid the problems they refuse to face. If one is playing a game for the same purpose, it would be considered an addiction.
So I saw this http://www.break.com/index/wow-gangsta-threatens-ex-guildies.html
and I though I'd bring it into this thread. I mean, if this guy's girlfriend is anything like this girl.. I know right?
Agreed...if after you've done everything you can to support her and try to make her get professional help and see her problem and nothing works. Splitting up might make her comes to her senses, maybe not. But to be honest this relationship sounds very shallow and I don't believe it'll last long-term anyway. You seem to solely care about your girlfriend's looks and little else...gonna need a hell of a lot more then that to make it last OP.
First off I think its dumb to say he is shallow for wanting his girlfriend to maintain her attractiveness. If sex had nothing to do with this situation then they would just be friends. I don't think it's too much to ask from your partner to maintain appearances as long as you do the same. Before I get yelled at I am not saying someone needs to be "perfect" but I don't think gaining 40 pounds/losing muscle, and overall not caring about hygiene is enough to become disappointed over.
Secondly she seems like she is sacrificing her real life relationships for the game. Ignoring him and friends that come to visit in favor of playing the game. Even the the depths of an MMO "addition" I have always made time for friends when something was going on.
Sent me an email if you want me to mail you some pizza rolls.
I dunno...this thread sounds to me like a put on to me....
...like the equivalent of yelling "Blizzard came and took mah babeh!"
This op, sounds like a typical troll found at Gamefaq's, making a thread like this. I didn't think they would escape the confines of that website, but WE ARE ALLLLLLLLLL DOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I blame the commies! or the french canadians........ both are a fearsome foe.
Ummmm.. ok. How about holding people accountable for the actions they take rather than blaming some game? Im pretty sure that If I was to play a game and not get up because I had to take a dump, thus... ending up taking a dump in my pants... it would b e my fault and not the games.
Though im sure its an easy scapegoat to use a game as an excuse for a suffering relationship.
In the spirit of this thread... im gonna go over to mcdonalds today and accuse them of making me fat... then willingly order a double quarter pounder with extras.
So much pity for the girl here, yet when a very popularly attractive woman is with a balding old fat man, there is an immense outcry about how much better she could do, dump the loser, cheat on him until he gets the point, blah blah blah....
I love people.
Yeah, it's so hard to not overeat.