If you like sandbox, and I mean real sandbox you should check out Ark Survival Evolved. Send me a message if you need a server, looking to give it a shot and don't know anyone that plays, I will be more than happy to get you started. Our server is clean, heavy modded, super running and great helpful and friendly community. Have a look, you will be happy you did! On the server, just give a shout out! Anyone will help, to find me, look for Prayr, TwoFalls Castle, and spawn in West 3. You will be close to help there!
http://www.superarkserver.com/
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I have played on official servers and had a blast and consider it more of an MMO than many games we call that now. The persistent world and sandbox elements make it a lot of fun. the number of players on at a time likely makes it less MMO, but how different is that from so many games being instanced.
If it had a HUGE map and supported 1000s of players on one server I honestly think it would be the best MMO out. It also happens to be a lot of fun single player and the devs have said that it will have a story etc.
The big catch is that it is still early access so things can change. For example, the just did an update to add new biomes that messed up some peoples bases etc.
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Now the problem with that is you aren't really forced to do anything.
Here's what I see as the Pro/Con side of this.
Pro:
It allows you the freedom to do whatever you want where your measure of success is equated with not dying. Then you'll build from there. You'll start to get invested in your dinosaurs, your home, your neighborhood. Dinosaurs (or other players if that's the type of server you're on) WILL come and try to destroy your place. So working together in that realm is of high value.
Con:
Your neighbors can be dicks. Hence why private servers (imho) is the way to go, unless you like the aforementioned play-style.
As in all Survival games, PvP servers have more than their share of griefers, gankers and vandalism, so I stick to unofficial PvE servers. Trust me, the carnivorous dinosaurs are more than enough threat all on their own. You can still form tribes, of course, just to co-operate and survive against the harsh environment.