I started playing about a week ago. I am stunned by the people who play this game.
My observation is that the people who play this game, with a few exceptions, are arrogant, unhelpful, rude, immature, and dillusional. Like a bunch of potty-mouthed 2 year olds. I don't know if its the game that makes people that way or if this game just tends to attract them.
Here is an example of what Im talking about: you go to random arenas. I look at local chat and its like 100 of the most immature tourettes 12 year olds got hold of a means to vent all of their pent up vulgarities. Its like they've never seen their own swearing in print before and need to see it in print over and over again.
So I decide to join a fight and some random asswipe decides to start criticizing my playing. "You noob. (Insert random skill here) sucks. You suck asshole. You are worthless. Thanks for making me lose Fucker." So they quit in the middle of a fight that we are winning after 3 flawless victories.
This is not an isolated experience. I am shocked by how many times Ive seen this attitude, which seems indicative of some form of mental pathology ( I mean that in all seriousness).
Now even if I did totally suck (which I don't). There is no excuse for this. I mean in an mmo community you would think there are some helpful people that would understand that not everyone knows the game in and out. Not everyone is uber and some could use some friendly advice. I have yet to see any of the normal courtesies of civilized society in this community.
Ive played several mmo's that have had poor, immature communites, but this one hands down is the worst. Its too bad because the game really looks kind of nice. These children ruin the fun of what could be a good game. Oh well. Off to greener pastures. There are too many people in this game that I do not care to have any association with.
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It happens, although I've been lucky enough to find mature people to chat with while drinking for the Drunkard title.
Honestly though, RA is a lost place. If you want to play with local chat unfiltered, I strongly suggest you to find a good guild with a lot of mature active people, and ironically it shouldn't be really hard to find one as the immature people don't care about getting in a guild. And you will never have to play with "random people" again. It's weird, but that's how it works most of the time here, but I can assure you will have a much better enjoyable social gameplay experience. After all, the name of the game is Guild Wars
Im with the post above, find yourself a good guild.
I try not to play with pug's as much as possible. Most of the experiences with random people i have had are good, but it's always the bad ones that get remembered, putting me off grouping.
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And so you know, RA is the nesting ground for bottom-of-the-barrel immaturity in GW.
Seems its very hard to find good communities in MMORPG's, as some other games have certain reputations as well...
(And yes, I know there are some out there...)
People are like that in RA, mostly because it is mostly elitist trying to "Own" other players, Ignore them.
PvE is more friendly, PvP is more "Serious" then PvE because you fight for glory and fame.
GvG: Too busy fighting, no talking
HA: Totally Elitists
TA: a bit more friendly
RA: place of the "Pwnerz" to meet
Too bad this kind happens in most MMO's, not just GW.
find a friendly Guild and ignore the idiots
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there is a learning curve , you will find more mature people in end game zones , or elite pvp areas.
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To the OP...you've played for a week...you had some bad experiences.
I've played for almost 1000 hours and I'm here to tell you...on a whole the community is excellent. I rarely have problems with people, and I use Pick-Up groups all the time. (Random Arena PvP is probably the exception...the usual PvP tools hang out there...trying to prove...something)
In fact I'd go so far as to say, it's the best community I've played with in a MMORPG. Others are either so quiet, you might as well not be playing a MMORPG (eg. EQ2), or so snobby that it makes you sick to keep going (eg. EVE) or as opposed to GW - REALLY filled with 12 year olds (or worse, immature 20 somethings) who spout garbage in General chat all day (eg. The Barrens in WoW).
The great thing about GW is that apart from a few areas (where you'll get a mix of the things I've noted above) most places you go in the "world" and people you meet are excellent. And if there is a fool mouthing off in one area...move to another town, or even just change district...it's that simple (unlike other MMORPGs where you end up turning off general chat forever).
Hadz has it right. After 18 months of play I've seen quite a few badmouthers, jerks, whiners, 12 year olds that learned a new word and wanna see if they can wear it out, and some of the most lude things ever.
On the whole, I wouldn't trade this comunity for anything. Not the comunity in WoW (where the early game areas are devoid of chat completely and the major cities are nothing but trade spam with no one willing to help anyone out) and certainly not the comunity in Diablo 2 (which is a bit closer to the one you described). All I can say is that you shouldn't base the whole community off of the trash that generally hangs around Pre Searing Ascalon.
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Well actuly I wouldn't like to see it in the chat window so I agree with you there but on stuff like teamspeak its cool.
The stuff said on GW is nowhere near as bad as the stuff said on CSS but still both great games.
i reached lvl 20 and started exploreing the world but the way the pout of town system works is terrible. because unless you party in town your alone.
the whole point of an mmorpg is to talk and communicate with other living players!
i know what your going to say if you like thsi game "join a good guild"
i joined a brilliant guild love the people in it and we have awsome confosations BUT there the only people you as a player talk to.
its a good game but they should make more efforts in getting players to communicate with eachother
i do like the game i just wish there was more interaction between players
I know it's rough.
BUT! What would you expect? Do you think theese people succeed in the higher levels? Hell noes.
When you have a good guild I doubt things like theese will ever happen. Joining with random people is not good if you want a serious game. A serious game contains only serious players. And finding 100% serious players at random isn't easy.
I took a look at the end-game arenas though, and my first experience wasn't good. Of course it was random people. But I was level 19 (one level from the top level) and all that joined on my team left the game right away as fast as they saw my level
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Ahh the fallback, it's free so deal with it. Let's see: Guild Wars, Factions, Nightfall at, let's say $50 a pop makes $150. Free=$0. Follow the logic. GW isn't free, nope, no monthly fee, but it isn't cheap either. I've played plenty of games that suck you dry monthly and they ALL have their downsides, jerks, botters, scammers, bad support, kids killing the game, etc. The thing they don't have is free monthly online pay for everyone to fall back on as an excuse for everything. But I digress from the orignal post.
If you don't say anything, run around for two weeks expecting people to just do whatever you want whenever you want because you want, take things personally, blah blah blah, yep, it's gonna suck. I've been playing for about six months now and have found most of the people to be pretty decent. I ignore the idiots and, to be honest, haven't seen this horrible dark side of the game that everyone describes. As for the foul mouthed 12 year old who seems to run rampant in this game...I must ignore him to the point of him being invisible. But whatever. Two weeks surely doesen't even get you into the real game in any of the campaigns.
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Why does anyone expect a random collection of people to have a good community? Small towns have good communities big cities do not.
Why would MMORPGs work any different?
You want to associate online with people whose company is enjoyable? Do what people do in real life find some people with a like mind.
If you walked around New York randomly asking people to help with a quest, how much profanity do you think you would hear? My bet is a lot.
Guild Wars offers plenty of support of people to organize together it simply offers no real support for random socialization. And guess what? It shouldn't, because that is a waste of time. Everyone acknowledges that PUGs are awful. Most people in GW think 50% of PUGs are worse then henchmen. PUGs just dumb down the game anyway. And it is not particularly real or valuable socialization anyway. If you acutally made friends PUGing you would make a guild with them or invite them to your guild.
Small organizations is how most people operate. And that is what Guild Wars is built around.
There is nothing wrong with Guild Wars' socialization mechanism. The problem is with people's crazy ass expectations that somehow people will magically start acting completely different than the real world.
Guild Wars is bar none the largest forum of all MMOs. Only Eve comes close since its all one cluster. Other MMOs seperate off into different servers. Huge populations become like this.
You want a nice community, play a MUD. The Massive part of MMORPG means you will never get a good community unless you are playing an extreme niche game. Large population will never have a good community. Games like EQ wind up with a server community and are small enough to have a medium community. Generally ok but not great. Guild Wars is the New York of the MMOs a billion faceless people who don't care one jot about some other faceless person unless they are in their Monkeysphere.
anyone that says " i reached level 20 " as if it was something very far or hard to reach , didnt play that much of guildwars.
learning how to get in decent groups is much harder then reaching lvl 20. , yes you have to learn how to do it , just like in real life , you have to learn to chose the good from the bad locations to make friends.
guildwars as 2.5 million acounts sold , i have no clue how many people play at the same time , but lets say a small number to avoid flames , lets say 100 k max.
25 completely diferent groups of 100 k people size.
you cant possibly judge the comunity from playing 20 hours in one week.
if you played with lets say with 100 people , joining pugs everyday for a week is easy to reach 100.
still , thats 0.001 % of the 100 k that were playing that week ... and you still missed the other 25 groups of 100 k out there that sometimes log in and are joining pugs also.
soooo , plz , everyone , not just the op , dont judge this game comunity , if you played 100 hours.
becose you just know like , 0.00001 % of the whole comunity.
speak about your experience , but dont say its the game foult.
one of the reasons i love this game is becose is cooperative , that means comunity.
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lets take WoW forinstance.
you wait outside the instance you want to get in and you wait there and others your level come along and you have a nice chat and say what you want / need and wehey your in a party and its all fun and games.
but in guildwars you enter a dungeon area and you have to do random groups.... but even if you dont its hard to find other players your level because of the simple fact you cant see them in action. and the only way you can is by grouping with them.
you could group with a lvl 20 warrior who has lvl 10 weapons in pvp... that helps noone
but in WoW you can see them fighting and if you think "yeah i need a warrior in my group" have a chit chat and BAM make an uber group
(i dislike WoW but its the only game i feel has a nice community)