Looking for a game to go "back" to...

I've played everything, everything worth playing. I've beta tested Aion, and am not interested in it. Its not what I thought it was going to be.

I am looking for a game to return to, since there is nothing new out for quite some time.

I was playing FFXI just recently, but have found that even with the added solo content, its still ridiculously hard to get much done with an outside life.

 I resubbed to WoW yesterday, but I'm already feeling that that was a mistake.

I'm basically looking for a game to return to, that had decent PVE, lots of choices of things to do, some fluff content here and here, a decent community, and some pvp options. Oh, and it needs to have solo content where I can jump on here and there and get stuff done.

I'm current;ly reevaluating conan.. but would like to try some others as well.

Suggestions?