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My best friend looks just like Megan Fox!

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  • SgtFrogSgtFrog Member Posts: 5,001

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Originally posted by Chieftan


    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    I'm actually not looking for advice. I'm just wondering how guys like chieftan maintains a strict friendship with so many attractive women without crossing the line.

    Well you asked for our thoughts and that's what you got. 

    Seriously if you can't talk to women without getting a hardon, your wife probably does think you're pathetic.  We all know attractive women whether its at work, friends or wherever you like to hang out(in your case I'm guessing its not the bar).  In spite of all that most of us can get through the day without carrying on like a complete tool.

     

    I asked for your thoughts on the very first sentence (the only one that has a question mark) and then participated in my own discussion. Tell me about your experience having a strict, nothing ever but friends relationship with a very attractive woman instead of putting on a tough guy act critiquing mine. Its very easy to critique others.

    I'm talking about a real friend. Too many people slap the word friend on people that are actually associates. I'm talking about a person you hang out with...tell personal experiences to...they're there for you when you need them....add a pretty face and an amazing body to this friend and you're in trouble if you aren't single. Don't tell me that you can turn off your urges like a switch.


    If you were satisfied and loved your wife then this would not have crossed your mind and you would not be here asking this question.


    People have attractive friends does not mean you have to fucking bang them.

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  • Sid_ViciousSid_Vicious Member RarePosts: 2,177

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Is it possible to just be friends with a person that you are completely attracted to or would the temptation to elevate the relationship prove to be far too great?

     

    I know that I couldn't handle a situation where I had an extremely attractive female friend. I have a lot of female associates but I tend to form a barrier against all hot women getting close to me on a real friendship level because I'm married and I would hate the temptation. To me the situation is like being friends with a talking juicy steak (or tofu burger for veggie heads). At any given moment you might get hungry and look their way..

     

    Tell me about your  thoughts or personal experiences. 

    Nothing wrong with being attracted to your friend. Its perfectly healthy, but if you create situations that could lead into anything bad than that is unhealthy (getting drunk together while alone, etc.). Don't be alone with her if you think its that much of a problem. Nothing wrong with stealing a glance . .. when nobody is watching LOL

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  • MrMxyzptlkMrMxyzptlk Member Posts: 141
    Originally posted by SgtFrog


    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk


    Originally posted by Chieftan



    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    I'm actually not looking for advice. I'm just wondering how guys like chieftan maintains a strict friendship with so many attractive women without crossing the line.

    Well you asked for our thoughts and that's what you got. 

    Seriously if you can't talk to women without getting a hardon, your wife probably does think you're pathetic.  We all know attractive women whether its at work, friends or wherever you like to hang out(in your case I'm guessing its not the bar).  In spite of all that most of us can get through the day without carrying on like a complete tool.

     

    I asked for your thoughts on the very first sentence (the only one that has a question mark) and then participated in my own discussion. Tell me about your experience having a strict, nothing ever but friends relationship with a very attractive woman instead of putting on a tough guy act critiquing mine. Its very easy to critique others.

    I'm talking about a real friend. Too many people slap the word friend on people that are actually associates. I'm talking about a person you hang out with...tell personal experiences to...they're there for you when you need them....add a pretty face and an amazing body to this friend and you're in trouble if you aren't single. Don't tell me that you can turn off your urges like a switch.


    If you were satisfied and loved your wife then this would not have crossed your mind and you would not be here asking this question.


    People have attractive friends does not mean you have to fucking bang them.

     

    Everything crosses my mind. I still wouldn't do anything even with a very attractive female friend but id hate the temptation so I've created a hot chick firewall. Again, the real topic isn't about me. I guess if you have no personal experiences with an attractive friend and are stuck on mine then that's cool I guess.
  • CrocolixCrocolix Member Posts: 221

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Is it possible to just be friends with a person that you are completely attracted to or would the temptation to elevate the relationship prove to be far too great?

     

    I know that I couldn't handle a situation where I had an extremely attractive female friend. I have a lot of female associates but I tend to form a barrier against all hot women getting close to me on a real friendship level because I'm married and I would hate the temptation. To me the situation is like being friends with a talking juicy steak (or tofu burger for veggie heads). At any given moment you might get hungry and look their way..

     

    Tell me about your  thoughts or personal experiences. 

    who the hell is megan fox?

  • SgtFrogSgtFrog Member Posts: 5,001

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Originally posted by SgtFrog

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk


    Originally posted by Chieftan


    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    I'm actually not looking for advice. I'm just wondering how guys like chieftan maintains a strict friendship with so many attractive women without crossing the line.

    Well you asked for our thoughts and that's what you got. 

    Seriously if you can't talk to women without getting a hardon, your wife probably does think you're pathetic.  We all know attractive women whether its at work, friends or wherever you like to hang out(in your case I'm guessing its not the bar).  In spite of all that most of us can get through the day without carrying on like a complete tool.

     

    I asked for your thoughts on the very first sentence (the only one that has a question mark) and then participated in my own discussion. Tell me about your experience having a strict, nothing ever but friends relationship with a very attractive woman instead of putting on a tough guy act critiquing mine. Its very easy to critique others.

    I'm talking about a real friend. Too many people slap the word friend on people that are actually associates. I'm talking about a person you hang out with...tell personal experiences to...they're there for you when you need them....add a pretty face and an amazing body to this friend and you're in trouble if you aren't single. Don't tell me that you can turn off your urges like a switch.


    If you were satisfied and loved your wife then this would not have crossed your mind and you would not be here asking this question.


    People have attractive friends does not mean you have to fucking bang them.

     

    Everything crosses my mind. I still wouldn't do anything even with a very attractive female friend but id hate the temptation so I've created a hot chick firewall. Again, the real topic isn't about me. I guess if you have no personal experiences with an attractive friend and are stuck on mine then that's cool I guess.

    It's easy...Just dont do anything or take it out on a sock.

    Your making a big deal over nothing TBH.

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  • CrocolixCrocolix Member Posts: 221

    Katty Perry has a peecock

    Morgan Fox doesnt

  • eyeswideopeneyeswideopen Member Posts: 2,414

    Originally posted by Flyingbottle

    Tofu (??, Japanese t?fu, Chinese dòufu, Korean doobu?), or bean curd[3] is a food made by coagulating soy milk, and then pressing the resulting curds into soft white blocks. It is of Chinese origin,[4] and part of East Asian and Southeast Asian cuisine such as Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Indonesian, Vietnamese,[5] and others.[6] There are many different varieties of tofu, including fresh tofu and tofu that has been processed in some way. Tofu has very little flavor or smell on its own, so it can be used either in savory or sweet dishes, and is often seasoned or marinated to suit the dish.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tofu

    :)

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    Real men eat Hufu.


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  • SgtFrogSgtFrog Member Posts: 5,001

    Originally posted by eyeswideopen

    Originally posted by Flyingbottle

    Tofu (??, Japanese t?fu, Chinese dòufu, Korean doobu?), or bean curd[3] is a food made by coagulating soy milk, and then pressing the resulting curds into soft white blocks. It is of Chinese origin,[4] and part of East Asian and Southeast Asian cuisine such as Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Indonesian, Vietnamese,[5] and others.[6] There are many different varieties of tofu, including fresh tofu and tofu that has been processed in some way. Tofu has very little flavor or smell on its own, so it can be used either in savory or sweet dishes, and is often seasoned or marinated to suit the dish.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tofu

    :)

    Fuck tofu.

    Real men eat Hufu.


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  • MrMxyzptlkMrMxyzptlk Member Posts: 141

    Originally posted by SgtFrog

    It's easy...Just dont do anything or take it out on a sock.

    Your making a big deal over nothing TBH.

    I'm not making a big deal out of anything. I simply tell it how it is. I posed the question how other people deal with the situation out of curiousity not mental anguish. I'm not seeking advice.  I just like hearing about how other people handle situations.

     

    Now a sock? Who jizzes in a sock? Sounds kind of messy ..........a ziplock bag makes more sense.

  • MrMxyzptlkMrMxyzptlk Member Posts: 141

    Still no one has stepped forth with personal experience to tell..oh well. If you manage to ignore your urges to have a romance with your hot friend wouldn't most guys catch some heat from their gf/wife?

     

    Most guys have to handle things a bit differently when they're already in a relationship and they have a female friend or else 9/10 their partner will get jealous.  You have to treat female friends completely different than you would a guy friend. You can't just tell your wife or gf, "aw it's too bad that you have work early honey. I'm going to go catch a film with Sarah and maybe chill on the couch later on". 

     

    You either have to bring your wife/gf most of the time when you're with your female friend or you always meet your friend with a group of other friends so that it doesn't appear to be a one on one thing.  If I flip the situation around...not many guys would want a male friend of their wife/gf stopping by the house and picking them up to hang out one on one. 

  • SgtFrogSgtFrog Member Posts: 5,001

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Originally posted by SgtFrog

    It's easy...Just dont do anything or take it out on a sock.

    Your making a big deal over nothing TBH.

    I'm not making a big deal out of anything. I simply tell it how it is. I posed the question how other people deal with the situation out of curiousity not mental anguish. I'm not seeking advice.  I just like hearing about how other people handle situations.

     

    Now a sock? Who jizzes in a sock? Sounds kind of messy ..........a ziplock bag makes more sense.


    lol...sock works well lol.


     


    Anyway just don't stick your dick in things that will get you in trouble :p

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  • SgtFrogSgtFrog Member Posts: 5,001

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Still no one has stepped forth with personal experience to tell..oh well. If you manage to ignore your urges to have a romance with your hot friend wouldn't most guys catch some heat from their gf/wife?

     

    Most guys have to handle things a bit differently when they're already in a relationship and they have a female friend or else 9/10 their partner will get jealous.  You have to treat female friends completely different than you would a guy friend. You can't just tell your wife or gf, "aw it's too bad that you have work early honey. I'm going to go catch a film with Sarah and maybe chill on the couch later on". 

     

    You either have to bring your wife/gf most of the time when you're with your female friend or you always meet your friend with a group of other friends so that it doesn't appear to be a one on one thing.  If I flip the situation around...not many guys would want a male friend of their wife/gf stopping by the house and picking them up to hang out one on one. 


    I have attractive friends who sure I would not mind banging but I just don’t...simple as that. 

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  • MrMxyzptlkMrMxyzptlk Member Posts: 141

    Originally posted by SgtFrog

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Still no one has stepped forth with personal experience to tell..oh well. If you manage to ignore your urges to have a romance with your hot friend wouldn't most guys catch some heat from their gf/wife?

     

    Most guys have to handle things a bit differently when they're already in a relationship and they have a female friend or else 9/10 their partner will get jealous.  You have to treat female friends completely different than you would a guy friend. You can't just tell your wife or gf, "aw it's too bad that you have work early honey. I'm going to go catch a film with Sarah and maybe chill on the couch later on". 

     

    You either have to bring your wife/gf most of the time when you're with your female friend or you always meet your friend with a group of other friends so that it doesn't appear to be a one on one thing.  If I flip the situation around...not many guys would want a male friend of their wife/gf stopping by the house and picking them up to hang out one on one. 


    I have attractive friends who sure I would not mind banging but I just don’t...simple as that. 

    There's more to your story. I'm not talking about just having sex with them. What prevents you from having a relationship with them? There's attraction, connection, trust....why wouldn't you give it a go? My wife is pretty much like a best friend that I sleep with. She's into gaming, anime, cars etc...and is about as weird/crazy as I am. 

     

    Girls are very good at seeing certain guys only as friends. They can pinpoint reasons why just like that. I don't know many guys that strictly want to keep an attractive girl as a friend unless he or she is already in a relationship or has some tendencies towards the same sex......or they know something pretty disgusting about her - "When are you going to wash? It's smelling like a seafood market in here"

     

    And if you're currently in a relationship how do you work that out? Do you just go out one on one with your female friends if your gf/wife is busy?

  • tvalentinetvalentine Member, Newbie CommonPosts: 4,216

    i think we need to see a pic of this friend of yours, you know ... to better judge the situation.

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  • ChieftanChieftan Member UncommonPosts: 1,188

    Originally posted by tvalentine

    i think we need to see a pic of this friend of yours, you know ... to better judge the situation.

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  • MrMxyzptlkMrMxyzptlk Member Posts: 141
    Nice to meet you Ms Chieftan!
  • SgtFrogSgtFrog Member Posts: 5,001

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Originally posted by SgtFrog


    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Still no one has stepped forth with personal experience to tell..oh well. If you manage to ignore your urges to have a romance with your hot friend wouldn't most guys catch some heat from their gf/wife?

     

    Most guys have to handle things a bit differently when they're already in a relationship and they have a female friend or else 9/10 their partner will get jealous.  You have to treat female friends completely different than you would a guy friend. You can't just tell your wife or gf, "aw it's too bad that you have work early honey. I'm going to go catch a film with Sarah and maybe chill on the couch later on". 

     

    You either have to bring your wife/gf most of the time when you're with your female friend or you always meet your friend with a group of other friends so that it doesn't appear to be a one on one thing.  If I flip the situation around...not many guys would want a male friend of their wife/gf stopping by the house and picking them up to hang out one on one. 


    I have attractive friends who sure I would not mind banging but I just don’t...simple as that. 

    There's more to your story. I'm not talking about just having sex with them. What prevents you from having a relationship with them? There's attraction, connection, trust....why wouldn't you give it a go? My wife is pretty much like a best friend that I sleep with. She's into gaming, anime, cars etc...and is about as weird/crazy as I am. 

     

    Girls are very good at seeing certain guys only as friends. They can pinpoint reasons why just like that. I don't know many guys that strictly want to keep an attractive girl as a friend unless he or she is already in a relationship or has some tendencies towards the same sex......or they know something pretty disgusting about her - "When are you going to wash? It's smelling like a seafood market in here"

     

    And if you're currently in a relationship how do you work that out? Do you just go out one on one with your female friends if your gf/wife is busy?


    I am not interested in getting into a relationship with anyone at the moment...I am happy being single for now lol. 

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  • MrMxyzptlkMrMxyzptlk Member Posts: 141

    hm how disappointing..I was hoping to hear something more amazing. Happy being single and without any...action eh? You sound like a monk ....I would've said priest but they don't seem to be very celibate these days. 

  • SgtFrogSgtFrog Member Posts: 5,001

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    hm how disappointing..I was hoping to hear something more amazing. Happy being single and without any...action eh? You sound like a monk ....I would've said priest but they don't seem to be very celibate these days. 

    Who said anything about no action? just no action with good friends.

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  • MrMxyzptlkMrMxyzptlk Member Posts: 141

    Originally posted by SgtFrog

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    hm how disappointing..I was hoping to hear something more amazing. Happy being single and without any...action eh? You sound like a monk ....I would've said priest but they don't seem to be very celibate these days. 

    Who said anything about no action? just no action with good friends.

    and no relationships.. ? So what do you do? When you pass by hot women on the street you both instinctively rip each others clothes off and get it on ? No no no...it must be like a jedi mind trick - "You want to get butt naked and get dealt with gorilla style"

  • Sid_ViciousSid_Vicious Member RarePosts: 2,177

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Still no one has stepped forth with personal experience to tell..oh well.

    If I had a wife that was upset about hanging out with a pretty girl than I would be bothered that she doesnt trust me and tell her something along the lines of, "I do what I want biatch!" as nice as I could . .. keeping your hands to yourself is easy and so is telling her to stop if she takes things too far.

     

    I know that my girl worries some when I will go out of the country or out of state often and may end up sleeping in the same bed as a good friend of mine (who may be smoking hot) but she knows that I am trustworthy and would never ever cheat. Actually I used to sleep with my best friend from ages 16-20 and some people did not understand how we could be so close and never have sex since she was very attractive . .. so maybe not everyone is so 'whats the big deal?' about it as much as I am.

     

    I don't think it would matter if you slept in the same bed. I do it with good friends of mine all of the time. Opposite sex? It doesn't matter . .. the main purpose for a bed is to sleep in anyways. It doesn't mean anything to spend the night or see eachother naked sometimes either but when it comes down to it:

    - Never ever lie to your wife unless you are ok with her lying to you . ..

    - Dont cheat. There is no such thing as being too drunk to notice. Thats bullshit. There are no excuses for it ever. If you do it than it is really fucked up and you should be brought outside and shot.

     

    Whats with the TV these days? Marriage has become meaningless and so many people on TV cheating and having secret affairs . .. makes me sick!

     

    To be honest the only reason that I trust women is because I have sisters and know that there is a line that they will not cross so it gives me hope that other women are like that. People are wayyy too lax when it comes to cheating in our society. Disease will surely spread and hurt thousands upon thousands of innocent people. That shit breaks up families, might spread AIDS to someone who had no idea (happened to my friend who lost both parents because her dad was cheating and got HIV+), not a good example for anyone else, etc. etc. I could go on forever but do not have to because you know as well as I do that it is fucked up.

     

    Think about her and look at her and do whatever the hell that you want but hands off mister! : P

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  • dandydaysdandydays Member Posts: 15

    Ohlalala. I love Megan Fox. 

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  • ChieftanChieftan Member UncommonPosts: 1,188

    Originally posted by Sid_Vicious

    - Dont cheat. There is no such thing as being too drunk to notice. Thats bullshit. There are no excuses for it ever. If you do it than it is really fucked up and you should be brought outside and shot.

     

    Whats with the TV these days? Marriage has become meaningless and so many people on TV cheating and having secret affairs . .. makes me sick!

     

    To be honest the only reason that I trust women is because I have sisters and know that there is a line that they will not cross so it gives me hope that other women are like that. People are wayyy too lax when it comes to cheating in our society. Disease will surely spread and hurt thousands upon thousands of innocent people. That shit breaks up families, might spread AIDS to someone who had no idea (happened to my friend who lost both parents because her dad was cheating and got HIV+), not a good example for anyone else, etc. etc. I could go on forever but do not have to because you know as well as I do that it is fucked up.

     

    Think about her and look at her and do whatever the hell that you want but hands off mister! : P

    I totally agree.  A few weeks ago a woman came into to work who I helped and we may have said 2 or 3 things to each other at most before she left.  5 minutes later she called back to work, asked for me, then told me over the phone that her husband was out of town for 5 weeks.

    I'm no Brett Favre but I really didn't think we even hit it off that well.  Either way, the offer was there if I was low enough to take it.  Stuff like that doesn't exactly sell me on the wedding routine.

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  • IlliusIllius Member UncommonPosts: 4,142

    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    Originally posted by SgtFrog


    Originally posted by MrMxyzptlk

    hm how disappointing..I was hoping to hear something more amazing. Happy being single and without any...action eh? You sound like a monk ....I would've said priest but they don't seem to be very celibate these days. 

    Who said anything about no action? just no action with good friends.

    and no relationships.. ? So what do you do? When you pass by hot women on the street you both instinctively rip each others clothes off and get it on ? No no no...it must be like a jedi mind trick - "You want to get butt naked and get dealt with gorilla style"

    You think only people in relationships have sex?  There are plenty of women I've picked up in the bar, banged the hell out of and we were never friends.  Come to think of it I don't remember who they even are.

    Just because you have a hard time keeping it in your pants and need your gf/fiance/wife to watch over your shoulder so you don't stick it where it don't belong doesn't mean the rest of us are like that.  I've have female friends and have thought about gettin it on but never went through it because we are friends first.  Quite a few of them are taken now so that's even less incentive.

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  • I just went on a date with a girl I recently met. Things went very well, and at the end she told me she'd like to go out again but...she's into open relationships. In fact, she's in one now. She wanted to tell me, in case I wasn't cool with that. Which I wasn't. So we went our seperate ways because that's just not what I'm into. It seems to be a trend with me lately. I feel like the last 10 women I've been out with turn out to be in 'open' relationships.

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