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Where are my kind of people?

BK2O1BK2O1 Member UncommonPosts: 91
I enjoy grouping. Not rushing through dungeons, or exploiting bosses. Not rushing to end game to be top dawg on the server. I enjoy the company of others on voice comms. I want to explore the worlds, take in the sights. Have laughs and also do some pvp. If there is an area that gives less xp but different scenery, lets go there and not care. Create friendships with other players or new players instead of insulting them. Not a zerg, but a family of like minded individuals out for an adventure.

Where are my kind of people? Do you exist anymore?
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  • BitterClingerBitterClinger Member UncommonPosts: 439
    You're what you call a "niche gamer". Not too many games catering to you right now. Black Desert has a lot of what you mention, but it is not a very social game. It's more of a "Bring Your Own Friends" thing.
  • KyleranKyleran Member LegendaryPosts: 43,975
    I think the rest of the Elves left Rivendell and went overseas to Valinor quite some time ago, you missed the boat.  ;)

    The type of people you describe still exist in almost every game, you just need to find them.

    I'm with such a group in EVE and I found them with no real difficulty.

    You might consider joining a larger corporate guild such as Grievance, I've hooked up with them on several titles and they are always a pleasure to game with.

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  • firefly2003firefly2003 Member UncommonPosts: 2,527
    I enjoy grouping in games and do it a lot in Guild Wars 2 with my guild and random players, the only MMORPG left that I'm playing till they screw it up like all the others do. Dungeon runs, raids, events, jumping puzzles, guild missions etc, lots to do with other players :)

  • SpeedhaakSpeedhaak Member UncommonPosts: 296
    Time gone by. The 'good ole days' of MMO gaming.
  • ZarriyaZarriya Member UncommonPosts: 446
    We are here. I do find a lot of like minded people - do a good guild search for whatever game interests you and you should find them.
  • DistopiaDistopia Member EpicPosts: 21,183
    BK2O1 said:
    I enjoy grouping. Not rushing through dungeons, or exploiting bosses. Not rushing to end game to be top dawg on the server. I enjoy the company of others on voice comms. I want to explore the worlds, take in the sights. Have laughs and also do some pvp. If there is an area that gives less xp but different scenery, lets go there and not care. Create friendships with other players or new players instead of insulting them. Not a zerg, but a family of like minded individuals out for an adventure.

    Where are my kind of people? Do you exist anymore?
    I'd assume mostly in guilds doing those things.

    For every minute you are angry , you lose 60 seconds of happiness."-Emerson


  • VestigeGamerVestigeGamer Member UncommonPosts: 518
    BK2O1 said:
    I enjoy grouping. Not rushing through dungeons, or exploiting bosses. Not rushing to end game to be top dawg on the server. I enjoy the company of others on voice comms. I want to explore the worlds, take in the sights. Have laughs and also do some pvp. If there is an area that gives less xp but different scenery, lets go there and not care. Create friendships with other players or new players instead of insulting them. Not a zerg, but a family of like minded individuals out for an adventure.

    Where are my kind of people? Do you exist anymore?
    Many of "us" have left the genre.  Of those still playing, it is such a small percentage that finding them requires sifting through thousands of "MAX MAX MAX" players before finding them.  I gave up looking years ago.

    VG

  • nariusseldonnariusseldon Member EpicPosts: 27,775
    BK2O1 said:


    Where are my kind of people? Do you exist anymore?
    don't know .. but certainly you won't find it in me.
  • carotidcarotid Member UncommonPosts: 425
    BK2O1 said:


    Where are my kind of people? Do you exist anymore?
    don't know .. but certainly you won't find it in me.
    Why not?
  • OfficerFriendlyEQ2OfficerFriendlyEQ2 Member UncommonPosts: 105
    That's my brother you are describing. He drove me crazy because I inspect his gear and its jelly. I would be like "come on bro! I can help you not suck so much!" but to no avail, he liked playing in slow motion...
  • AAAMEOWAAAMEOW Member RarePosts: 1,617
    Quite honestly, I met those kind of people every game I play.


  • AmatheAmathe Member LegendaryPosts: 7,630
    I fit your description. 

    EQ1, EQ2, SWG, SWTOR, GW, GW2 CoH, CoV, FFXI, WoW, CO, War,TSW and a slew of free trials and beta tests

  • LokeroLokero Member RarePosts: 1,514
    I don't think these kind of threads are allowed in the modern "free speech" era, sorry.  This is discriminatory and you have been reported to the TDA (Top Dawgs Association).
  • nariusseldonnariusseldon Member EpicPosts: 27,775
    carotid said:
    BK2O1 said:


    Where are my kind of people? Do you exist anymore?
    don't know .. but certainly you won't find it in me.
    Why not?
    Because i don't have time nor I am interested in making friends with strangers in video games?
  • nerovergilnerovergil Member UncommonPosts: 680
    this why i dont do dungeon, so much rush. and pub spvp (gw2) i dont play ranked. they winning hunger crybaby
  • AlbatroesAlbatroes Member LegendaryPosts: 7,671
    I'm kind of with you OP, but more that I miss social responsibility. Meaning being stuck on a server without the option to change your name and can only transfer servers once every 90 days (good old FFXI days). During those times, if you rose up on the server your rep would follow you and you would be known for whatever it was you did the most. Like always organizing things, being friendly, being an a-hole etc. Now its just instance instance instance, occasional shout for a raid depending on server pop, back to instance instance instance. Rarely talk or have any world content. Honestly most "open world" MMORPGs are nothing more than hub games where you wait around in a town till something pops up.
  • MikehaMikeha Member EpicPosts: 9,196
    edited May 2016
    I have and always be that type of person. The problem is that games no longer offer us what we are looking for. 

    Everything now is designed around solo play unless it is some random instance dungeon that you que up for in an auto group finder. 

    I miss the days of people just coming together on their own and exploring the world together because it was the best and most fun way to play.
  • DarkswormDarksworm Member RarePosts: 1,081
    edited May 2016
    Recore said:
    I have and always be that type of person. The problem is that games no longer offer us what we are looking for. 

    Everything now is designed around solo play unless it is some random instance dungeon that you que up for in an auto group finder. 

    I miss the days of people just coming together on their own and exploring the world together because it was the best and most fun way to play.
    To be frank, there isn't much any game could offer that hasn't already been done.  Everyone is crying about how everything is the same, but really... what could be different that hasn't already been tried and failed.  You expect a game developer to sink millions into a failed experiment with recent precedent, in a market that is actually shrinking and leaves almost no room for them to demand a subscription (so they are beholden to people who buy the game a year later for $15 from some website/steam/best buy and don't invest much else into it)?

    The reason why people like solo play is because:

    1.  Not everyone has ALL DAY or ALL NIGHT to sit online waiting for the people they need to log in, be available, etc.

    2.  Not everyone wants to play a game on a schedule.

    3.  People like being able to log in for the half hour they have free, and get something done.

    4.  Frankly, people don't like having their entertainment dictated by the wills and wants of others.  In a group-oriented game, things like GearScore and DPS Meters become commonplace, and become the way by which other players are evaluated.  People do not like getting declined for parties simply because you don't think their gear is good enough, or because they don't do enough damage...

    Which BTW, could be improved if you'd just invite them to the instance they want to do, which drops the upgrades that would allow them to improve.

    5.  Group Play wastes time unless you can do 1: and 2:

    Even Games with Group Finders often see players wasting an hour or more waiting for a queue pop for RANDOM dungeons.  These aren't even specific dungeon requests, they just want to do SOMETHING.  This is without group leaders vetting their Armory/Gear, Achievements, DPS/HPS/Tanking performance, etc.  This is with the system warping you directly into the dungeon.  This is with the game giving you free bonuses (Gold, XP, Tokens, whatever) for doing it...

    Then you have to worry about issues with content getting older and less relevant as time goes on.  Yes, you may need a great item out of an instance form the last patch, but does anyone else want to do it?  Should they feel compelled to do it simply because you're their friend, even though they have tons of opportunities to instead go do other content they deem more relevant?

    Remember when EQ Added Epic 1.5 and 2.0, and had to put a shortcut to skip the original Kunark Epic quests?  Why do you think that was the case?

    You "miss the days" when these games weren't par for the course in this market.  These days, even FPS and other genres have many of the aspects that were "amazing" about games like EverQuest.  There is no reason for people to waste their time exploring, because the formula hasn't really changed, ever, and nor will it for the foreseeable future.

    The only thing the developers can do it put carrots on a stick to make people do it (Rare MOBs, Open Raid MOBs, etc.) and please tell me that isn't something dozens of games haven't already done since yesteryear...

    This genre has hit its peak.  Either you're playing one of the more popular ones as a long standing player, or you're being consistently disappointed by what's being released because what you're missing, isn't going to happen again.  It's not possible because everyone has already done it and nostalgia is a feeling, not a thing.  Even if the same thing exists, you still won't feel the same way about it.

    Lastly, market demographics have changed.  Many of the newer players are younger, grew up playing different types of games on various platforms/form factors, and have different priorities to you.  They are more competitive and PvP oriented.  For PvE they are predominantly raiders and speed runners.

    They don't want to take 5 months to level to end game, even though they're totally find with spending 5 months farming BiS gear at max level, because max level at least opens more avenues of play for them (PvP, Arenas, Raids, Heroic/Mythic Dungeons, etc.).

    The majority of people wailing for the "good old days" have cycled out of this genre.  This is why games that have tried to replicate that have not been able to really capitalize on that share of the market.  It's small, and shrinking.  Either you upgrade your expectations, or you're always going to feel disenfranchised simply because developers won't waste that much money to cater to a few players who - honestly - don't even matter in the grand scheme of things.
  • iixviiiixiixviiiix Member RarePosts: 2,256
    Let see , every time i want group .

    Difference quests so can't group
    Party full so can't play with other in instance dungeon
    Lack of level so get left behind cause power gap and level restriction contents.

    After nearly 20 years of developing MMORPG , why the **** all those annoying thing still here ?
    and why social things like free trade , no bind , player create shop get remove ?
  • hfztthfztt Member RarePosts: 1,401
    Except for the PvP part I would recomend looking at Dungeons & Dragons Online. 
  • nariusseldonnariusseldon Member EpicPosts: 27,775
    iixviiiix said:

    and why social things like free trade , no bind , player create shop get remove ?
    because most players don't care about those things?
  • nerovergilnerovergil Member UncommonPosts: 680
    there is 1/99 kind people in real world...what u expect in a virtual world?
  • KyleranKyleran Member LegendaryPosts: 43,975
    edited May 2016
    iixviiiix said:

    and why social things like free trade , no bind , player create shop get remove ?
    because most players don't care about those things?
    Link to studies showing "most" players don't care about them?

    You could just as easily say developers are too lazy/cheap to include them.

    You can prove players will buy games without them, but you can't know their motivations for doing so.

    Perhaps players have just proven they will buy anything shiny and new, regardless of features.

    "True friends stab you in the front." | Oscar Wilde 

    "I need to finish" - Christian Wolff: The Accountant

    Just trying to live long enough to play a new, released MMORPG, playing New Worlds atm

    Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions. Pvbs 18:2, NIV

    Don't just play games, inhabit virtual worlds™

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  • IwayloIwaylo Member UncommonPosts: 174
    Sure we're around. I'm playing on blizzlike progressive warmane Lordaeron wotlk server currently 36lv doing whatever zone i feel like no matter how much i outlevel the zone. I meet up with people, we do stuff together i see enemy faction players we fight, i did Razorfen Downs yesterday 2 hours Lol we were doing stupid shit and havin' fun in there and we were bunch of randoms who met on the global channel while making the group and on our way to the instance we fought couple of enemy faction players.
  • howstupidisthishowstupidisthis Member UncommonPosts: 147
    We are NOT niche gamers...lol

    There is a revival coming OP, do not lose heart!
    Games like Star Citizen and others are pushing the limits of what PCs can do.
    They are bringing back voice comms and grouping, inside enormous multiplayer worlds, with no quest givers or any BS  mechanics like that.
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