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AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
edited May 2016 in The Pub at MMORPG.COM
So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ?

http://forums.mmorpg.com/discussion/451445/lgbt-community-in-eve#latest

I must say i am very disappointed how some people can't see why there would be LGBT guilds, i think some people need to go and educate themselves on why people would want to be in a LGBT guild unless you just like being ignorant and think it's people just flaunting their sexuality.

They had to form communties to fight the prejudice they face just for being themselves, I would join as i would like to be able to talk about rupauls drag race without someone ewww guys in dresses i don't know many who watch the show but i think it's fun.

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  • ForgrimmForgrimm Member EpicPosts: 3,069
    The site is here to discuss video games, not people's sexual preferences or gender identity.
  • GestankfaustGestankfaust Member UncommonPosts: 1,989
    Give it a rest already....Jeebus.

    "This may hurt a little, but it's something you'll get used to. Relax....."

  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    edited May 2016
    Forgrimm said:
    The site is here to discuss video games, not people's sexual preferences or gender identity.
    I see other guilds promoting their guild on this website.
  • MikeBMikeB Community ManagerAdministrator RarePosts: 6,555
    Unfortunately, these threads tend to fly off course pretty quickly, so we're forced to lock them.
  • AlbatroesAlbatroes Member LegendaryPosts: 7,671
    Its understandable to want a group for certain things inside of an activity that you enjoy doing, but you have to consider if the activity is more important than the people involved in it. If its not, then maybe you just dont enjoy the activity if you HAVE to have both.
  • ceratop001ceratop001 Member RarePosts: 1,594
    I don't have a problem with discussing sexual preferences, but if they allowed that then they would have to allow Politics and Religion. Eventually it would be total chaos. Just imagine it if you can. I agree with this site not allowing it for that reason.
     
  • Sector13Sector13 Member UncommonPosts: 784
    edited May 2016
    AnnaTS said:
    Forgrimm said:
    The site is here to discuss video games, not people's sexual preferences or gender identity.
    I see other guilds promoting their guild on this website.
    and how many of those guilds promote themselves by the sexual identity the players themselves share? I don't know many MMOs that allow you to make an actual trans character outside the one I am playing atm which I currently do play a trans character. Never have I felt the need to be in a team dedicated for that purpose cause there is a huge difference is discrimination that people like to cry about and being made fun of which will happen no matter who or what you are. 
  • scorpex-xscorpex-x Member RarePosts: 1,030
    AnnaTS said:
    So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ?

    http://forums.mmorpg.com/discussion/451445/lgbt-community-in-eve#latest

    I must say i am very disappointed how some people can't see why there would be LGBT guilds, i think some people need to go and educate themselves on why people would want to be in a LGBT guild unless you just like being ignorant and think it's people just flaunting their sexuality.

    They had to form communties to fight the prejudice they face just for being themselves, I would join as i would like to be able to talk about rupauls drag race without someone ewww guys in dresses i don't know many who watch the show but i think it's fun.

    [mod edit]

    I want a green and purple sock wearing community.

    Seriously, you're a game player and that's all that matters here.  Just leave it at that, nobody wants to know your sexual preference, what color you are, what sex you are etc
  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    scorpex-x said:
    AnnaTS said:
    So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ?

    http://forums.mmorpg.com/discussion/451445/lgbt-community-in-eve#latest

    I must say i am very disappointed how some people can't see why there would be LGBT guilds, i think some people need to go and educate themselves on why people would want to be in a LGBT guild unless you just like being ignorant and think it's people just flaunting their sexuality.

    They had to form communties to fight the prejudice they face just for being themselves, I would join as i would like to be able to talk about rupauls drag race without someone ewww guys in dresses i don't know many who watch the show but i think it's fun.

    [mod edit]

    I want a green and purple sock wearing community.

    Seriously, you're a game player and that's all that matters here.  Just leave it at that, nobody wants to know your sexual preference, what color you are, what sex you are etc
    Fine then make a guild called that your not harming anyone one, it's not about people going i joined this guild so everyone can know their sexual preference again some people really need to educate themselves.

    Documentaires they are great to watch they even made their own language in the UK when it was illegal to be homosexual.

    They still face alot of discrimintaion worldwide it some states in the usa you can still get fired for being homosexual  so that is why the LGBT form communties.

    Again they weren't discussing sexual preference they were promoting a guild where other LGBT members might like to join.
  • scorpex-xscorpex-x Member RarePosts: 1,030
    edited May 2016
    AnnaTS said:
    scorpex-x said:
    AnnaTS said:
    So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ?

    http://forums.mmorpg.com/discussion/451445/lgbt-community-in-eve#latest

    I must say i am very disappointed how some people can't see why there would be LGBT guilds, i think some people need to go and educate themselves on why people would want to be in a LGBT guild unless you just like being ignorant and think it's people just flaunting their sexuality.

    They had to form communties to fight the prejudice they face just for being themselves, I would join as i would like to be able to talk about rupauls drag race without someone ewww guys in dresses i don't know many who watch the show but i think it's fun.

    [mod edit]

    I want a green and purple sock wearing community.

    Seriously, you're a game player and that's all that matters here.  Just leave it at that, nobody wants to know your sexual preference, what color you are, what sex you are etc
    Fine then make a guild called that your not harming anyone one, it's not about people going i joined this guild so everyone can know their sexual preference again some people really need to educate themselves.

    Documentaires they are great to watch they even made their own language in the UK when it was illegal to be homosexual.

    They still face alot of discrimintaion worldwide it some states in the usa you can still get fired for being homosexual  so that is why the LGBT form communties.

    Again they weren't discussing sexual preference they were promoting a guild where other LGBT members might like to join.
    Just talk about the games on a gaming forum and stop trying to put yourself into little niches of communities where everyone else is out to get you and you need to talk about it.  Vast majority don't want to hear off topic stuff about your trials and tribulations at being a gay gamer, or my green and purple sock wearing antics.

    There are plenty of gay forums where you can talk about games and that would make a whole lot more sense than doing it here, there are lots of lgbt guilds on almost every game there is. 

    You're gay or whatever else?  that's totally cool, enjoy whatever you are.  Doesn't mean it has to be here anymore than anything else that differentiates anyone of us from another.

    https://www.reddit.com/r/gaymers/
  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    edited May 2016
    Just talk about the games on a gaming forum and stop trying to put yourself into little niches of communities where everyone else is out to get you and you need to talk about it.  Vast majority don't want to hear off topic stuff about your trials and tribulations at being a gay gamer, or my green and purple sock wearing antics.

    There are plenty of gay forums where you can talk about games and that would make a whole lot more sense than doing it here, there are lots of lgbt guilds on almost every game there is. 

    You're gay or whatever else?  that's totally cool, enjoy whatever you are.  Doesn't mean it has to be here anymore than anything else that differentiates anyone of us from another.
    So basically either your saying you think it shouldn't be here or you just don't want it to be here on this forum.

    They were promoting their guild in eve other guilds promote their guild on this forum it just happened to be a LGBT guild and seems some have taken offence.

    why should they only promote their guild on a gay gaming only website and not here how many members how this website supposed to have and you don't think some of them are homosexual.
  • scorpex-xscorpex-x Member RarePosts: 1,030
    edited May 2016
    I didn't read the thread you're talking about I just saw

    "So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ? "

    My point was, this is a gaming forum.  Nobody cares if you're gay, brown, green, 4 foot2, 7foot9 or whatever else.  Talk about the games, if a guy randomly says such and such male characters has a nice ass nobody cares but why make gay issue topics on a gaming forum?
     
    Anyway, why are you complaining?  If they were just promoting their linkshell they still are, the post wasn't deleted.  The point was to make gay people know the shell existed, now they do. 

    Lots of posts get closed for lots of reasons, they aren't oppressing you.
  • FFFGFFFG Member UncommonPosts: 73
    AnnaTS said:
    Just talk about the games on a gaming forum and stop trying to put yourself into little niches of communities where everyone else is out to get you and you need to talk about it.  Vast majority don't want to hear off topic stuff about your trials and tribulations at being a gay gamer, or my green and purple sock wearing antics.

    There are plenty of gay forums where you can talk about games and that would make a whole lot more sense than doing it here, there are lots of lgbt guilds on almost every game there is. 

    You're gay or whatever else?  that's totally cool, enjoy whatever you are.  Doesn't mean it has to be here anymore than anything else that differentiates anyone of us from another.
    So basically either your saying you think it shouldn't be here or you just don't want it to be here on this forum.

    They were promoting their guild in eve other guilds promote their guild on this forum it just happened to be a LGBT guild and seems some have taken offence.

    why should they only promote their guild on a gay gaming only website and not here how many members how this website supposed to have and you don't think some of them are homosexual.
    Maybe it's because people want to talk about video games NOT about issues that get thrown down our throat everyday in the real world.  
  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    edited May 2016
    scorpex-x said:
    I didn't read the thread you're talking about I just saw

    "So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ? "

    My point was, this is a gaming forum.  Nobody cares if you're gay, brown, green, 4 foot2, 7foot9 or whatever else.  Talk about the games, if a guy randomly says such and such male characters has a nice ass nobody cares but why make gay issue topics on a gaming forum?
     
    Anyway, why are you complaining?  If they were just promoting their linkshell they still are, the post wasn't deleted.  The point was to make gay people know the shell existed, now they do. 

    Lots of posts get closed for lots of reasons, they aren't oppressing you.
    The thread was someone promoting a guild and it happened to be a LGBT guild and some people don't seem to be able to understand why there would be a LGBT guild.

    I  mean't the question more like can we not discusss anything that is LGBT related without the threads getting closed not that we have to discuss sexuality people keep focusing on the sexuality part i don't understand. 
  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    edited May 2016
    MikeB said:
    Unfortunately, these threads tend to fly off course pretty quickly, so we're forced to lock them.
    why has this thread got locked into the forum it's not jumping back onto the main page when someone replies ?
  • scorpex-xscorpex-x Member RarePosts: 1,030
    The ad is stil there for all to see, they didn't' delete it.  You're just mad cause you wanted to flame people.  Quit yer bitching.

    Lots of threads get locked for lots of reasons, you aren't anymore important than anyone else to not have a thread of an issue you care about locked.
  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    FFFG said:
    AnnaTS said:
    MikeB said:
    Unfortunately, these threads tend to fly off course pretty quickly, so we're forced to lock them.
    why has this thread got locked into the forum it's not jumping back onto the main page when someone replies ?
    It's EVERY THREAD right now!  This is what people are talking about nobody is out to get you you are not being oppressed.  Unbelievable!
    I was just asking the question seeing as mikeb works here and has replied to this thread so thought i would reply to ask why, so why would you find that hard to understand that someone might want to know an answer to something that usually doesn't happen ?
  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    scorpex-x said:
    The ad is stil there for all to see, they didn't' delete it.  You're just mad cause you wanted to flame people.  Quit yer bitching.

    Lots of threads get locked for lots of reasons, you aren't anymore important than anyone else to not have a thread of an issue you care about locked.
    So wanting to talk about the guild and why the guild exists is flaming to you ?

    Seems to me some people have just taken offence to someone promoting an LGBT guild to me.
  • DibdabsDibdabs Member RarePosts: 3,238
    AnnaTS said:
    So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ?
    Because otherwise people would want guilds that are Aryan only, Black only, Christian only, Muslim only, or whatever.  We're gamers, and we don't need that puerile ****.   On the internet we're all just pixels, and I don't give a crap what anyone's political, racial or religious preferences are and I don't give a flying fart where they park their genitalia either.

    I've recently broken the habit of decades and joined a group in a game where we use Teamspeak and guess what?  I don't care what their sexual preferences are and they don't care about anyone else's either.
  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    Dibdabs said:
    AnnaTS said:
    So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ?
    Because otherwise people would want guilds that are Aryan only, Black only, Christian only, Muslim only, or whatever.  We're gamers, and we don't need that puerile ****.   On the internet we're all just pixels, and I don't give a crap what anyone's political, racial or religious preferences are and I don't give a flying fart where they park their genitalia either.

    I've recently broken the habit of decades and joined a group in a game where we use Teamspeak and guess what?  I don't care what their sexual preferences are and they don't care about anyone else's either.
    So basically you're just assumming everyone who joins a LGBT guild  does it just to go oh look i'm homosexual and not because other people might have common interest as them.

    I don't have a problem with muslim or christian guilds and i'm atheist and apparently they already exist i did a goggle.

    http://www.cgalliance.org/forums/
  • xpowderxxpowderx Member UncommonPosts: 2,078
    AnnaTS said:
    So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ?

    http://forums.mmorpg.com/discussion/451445/lgbt-community-in-eve#latest

    I must say i am very disappointed how some people can't see why there would be LGBT guilds, i think some people need to go and educate themselves on why people would want to be in a LGBT guild unless you just like being ignorant and think it's people just flaunting their sexuality.

    They had to form communties to fight the prejudice they face just for being themselves, I would join as i would like to be able to talk about rupauls drag race without someone ewww guys in dresses i don't know many who watch the show but i think it's fun.

    [mod edit]

    Why should this even be a subject?  Gamers come in all cultures, races and backrounds. This should not be a subject at all.  Most gamers do not give a damn if some dude is playing a female character or vice versa.  It does not matter!

    I play LOTRO.  I have 20 characters over 3 accounts. at least 1/3 are female toons.  WTH does that have to do with LGBT!  I am actually offended that you want to throw in that crap and make assertions.  I play my characters the way I want to play them.

    As a gamer in a mmo.  Do I give a damn about sexuality in a mmo? NO! I would rather be bashing some orcs head in!  I play mmo's to escape my stressful RL.  As a gamer we do not need the above type of B.S in a game. 

    If your clan, guild, corp, kin is a LGBT inclusive  group.  WE DO NOT CARE!  Why should it matter?  That group is no more important than any other guild that exists.
  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    xpowderx said:
    AnnaTS said:
    So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ?

    http://forums.mmorpg.com/discussion/451445/lgbt-community-in-eve#latest

    I must say i am very disappointed how some people can't see why there would be LGBT guilds, i think some people need to go and educate themselves on why people would want to be in a LGBT guild unless you just like being ignorant and think it's people just flaunting their sexuality.

    They had to form communties to fight the prejudice they face just for being themselves, I would join as i would like to be able to talk about rupauls drag race without someone ewww guys in dresses i don't know many who watch the show but i think it's fun.

    [mod edit]

    Why should this even be a subject?  Gamers come in all cultures, races and backrounds. This should not be a subject at all.  Most gamers do not give a damn if some dude is playing a female character or vice versa.  It does not matter!

    I play LOTRO.  I have 20 characters over 3 accounts. at least 1/3 are female toons.  WTH does that have to do with LGBT!  I am actually offended that you want to throw in that crap and make assertions.  I play my characters the way I want to play them.

    As a gamer in a mmo.  Do I give a damn about sexuality in a mmo? NO! I would rather be bashing some orcs head in!  I play mmo's to escape my stressful RL.  As a gamer we do not need the above type of B.S in a game. 

    If your clan, guild, corp, kin is a LGBT inclusive  group.  WE DO NOT CARE!  Why should it matter?  That group is no more important than any other guild that exists.
    Sorry i think you lost the point of the thread somewhere it usually makes sense when you read what someone writes.

    I didn't say one group was more important than any other.

    I see people keep mentioning sexual preference but i'm part of the LGBT community so if i was in a LGBT guild how does that tell you my sexual preference the only way you would know is if you have come across the profile i use for hooking up i haven't toold anyone my sexual preference.
  • xpowderxxpowderx Member UncommonPosts: 2,078
    AnnaTS said:
    xpowderx said:
    AnnaTS said:
    So are we not allowed to discuss anything LGBT because the subject hardly comes up but this thread got closed rather quickly ?

    http://forums.mmorpg.com/discussion/451445/lgbt-community-in-eve#latest

    I must say i am very disappointed how some people can't see why there would be LGBT guilds, i think some people need to go and educate themselves on why people would want to be in a LGBT guild unless you just like being ignorant and think it's people just flaunting their sexuality.

    They had to form communties to fight the prejudice they face just for being themselves, I would join as i would like to be able to talk about rupauls drag race without someone ewww guys in dresses i don't know many who watch the show but i think it's fun.

    [mod edit]

    Why should this even be a subject?  Gamers come in all cultures, races and backrounds. This should not be a subject at all.  Most gamers do not give a damn if some dude is playing a female character or vice versa.  It does not matter!

    I play LOTRO.  I have 20 characters over 3 accounts. at least 1/3 are female toons.  WTH does that have to do with LGBT!  I am actually offended that you want to throw in that crap and make assertions.  I play my characters the way I want to play them.

    As a gamer in a mmo.  Do I give a damn about sexuality in a mmo? NO! I would rather be bashing some orcs head in!  I play mmo's to escape my stressful RL.  As a gamer we do not need the above type of B.S in a game. 

    If your clan, guild, corp, kin is a LGBT inclusive  group.  WE DO NOT CARE!  Why should it matter?  That group is no more important than any other guild that exists.
    Sorry i think you lost the point of the thread somewhere it usually makes sense when you read what someone writes.

    I didn't say one group was more important than any other.

    I see people keep mentioning sexual preference but i'm part of the LGBT community so if i was in a LGBT guild how does that tell you my sexual preference the only way you would know is if you have come across the profile i use for hooking up i haven't toold anyone my sexual preference.
    Exactly what does LGBT stand for(The definition)?  Using LGBT  represents a sexual preference. Just by reference only!  I do not care if you are part of the LGBT community.  One of my daughters is, so is her wife.  As is a brother in-law.

    Now exactly why do you need to mention that?  You not confident?  My daughter is confident.  She does not care what people think.  Unless you are expressing yourself to use gaming as a pick up spot.   Then you are really in the wrong place.   Both in and out of gaming.

    Like I said above, it does not matter to us.  But it does matter to you.  That is what LGBT groups are for.  So you can bring up LGBT subjects.  To the rest of us. It does not matter, nor do we care.  I recommend fully finding yourself.  Because the gays I know are completely confident in what they do.
  • xpowderxxpowderx Member UncommonPosts: 2,078
    Think about this.  No one here would know you were gay if you did not advertise it.  Why did you advertise it on a gaming forum?  I do not see others doing that.  Rather they are talking subjects related to gaming.

    There are many other places where you can A/S/L.  I would not be surprised to see the OP locked or moved.  Because really you are not talking about mmo's or gaming.  But rather  LGBT advertisement under the guise of LGBT group or guild.

    This is enough on this subject.
  • AnnaTSAnnaTS Member UncommonPosts: 600
    edited May 2016
    xpowderx said:
    Think about this.  No one here would know you were gay if you did not advertise it.  Why did you advertise it on a gaming forum?  I do not see others doing that.  Rather they are talking subjects related to gaming.

    There are many other places where you can A/S/L.  I would not be surprised to see the OP locked or moved.  Because really you are not talking about mmo's or gaming.  But rather  LGBT advertisement under the guise of LGBT group or guild.

    This is enough on this subject.
    I think you should go and read the original thread i posted the link in the oringinal post of this thread.

    I only posted because all people could focus on was that it was an LGBT guild and that they couldn't understand why a LGBT guild would exist it's not about telling people you're gay, maybe it's about gaming with people who don't judge you for who you are.

    Btw homophobia still exists.

    I will just post this if anyone can be bothered to read it there is a ton of other shit i could find because there is a lot of homophobia but i think this wil do.

     http://www.fastcompany.com/3057357/the-future-of-work/heres-everywhere-in-america-you-can-still-get-fired-for-being-lgbt


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