Many of your replies are very helpful. Thanks for taking your time to add. I will try the ideas given. This is mostly preliminary work to gauge for true interest so I will take all steps offered.
Jeff
Oh you make a good point. It can be more attractive of an idea to just get off the bed and log in in my underwear, knowing I don't have to face anyone.
But yes, shower and combed hair would be preferred. I guess that might be on the Con side of th…